Is Sex An Issue Of Time

When do you know if its the right time? In truth the real question is, Is he the right guy. I hear women say I have been with him for 5years,I think i should allow him he has tried some say. Like it was an endurance test for the ultimate price. The common saying "I want it to be special" can't be achieved with time because there is no such thing as right time. sex is a. Sacred union that is special only with the right partner not time. Its like the question of love used in this scenario, do we have to be with a person for a long while before we are safe to fall in love. So the question should not be the right time it should be right partner but that's a discussion for another day. Finding the right partner and them loving your inner and physical qualities and being able to with stand your faults. If u must have sex time should not be a criteria the person its with is the main criteria

Inner Beauty

Low self esteem is a problem faced by both sexes but the female folk pay the greater price. Low self esteem from my personal point of view is when a being feels oppressed because of a defect. This defect is usually natural in case of women and material for men,the beginning of the end of a being is when we realise our defect and make the greatest mistake; forget that everybody has a one whether natural or material.
Women pay a greater price because when they are faced with this sad reality,mostly in a question of beauty,but they forget "physical beauty is not ours" we where created with it and its not our call to decide who is beautiful or not. But beauty on the inside,this is beauty with a capital "B" because we make that our self with a lot of hard work and effort. Once a woman is confident with her inner beauty the issue of self esteem is no longer an issue.
Women should always remember if you where not loved for your inner beauty you where never loved to begging with

Change For The Best

When people ask what gives you your inspiration to write,I go numb not because its a secret or am hiding it so I can monopolies,its far from it because I don't write on inspiration I just write its something that comes naturally I don't have to stair at the sky or face a near death experience to do it,sometimes I fear the "gift" will go,and my hand also will be numb like my response to their question,i call it a gift because that's the only word that came to my mind at the time. I only pray and wish my writings will reach high places not just for recognition but to strike a change in this country we live in and for all others who need this type of change,because this change that I cry for is not your regular change for the better its "change for the best" where the voice of the underdog will be heard by his master, not just heard his ideas worked on to create the best change in the history of changes.

Still Another Boy

My relationship views are quite different from the views of other boys my age,I have this believe that girls are special and therefore should be treated thus,I believe the man should be in control not because he's smarter or wiser but just to satisfy nature. The woman has a calmer,gentle and less violent mind so decisions made by such a creature would have these qualities "the touch of a woman" the notion that women are evil always comes up in the argument "men or women" but in truth the men have more evil tendencies they are just so good at hiding them,90 percent of the evil a man does goes un-noticed,almost all relationships that break are caused by men but they say 'she broke up with me' if deply investigated one way or the other the fault comes from the man. But what do I know am still another boy...

The Truth About The Change We Want For Nigeria

The thought of my words Inspiring and motivating people in their various feilds
has always been a dream for me,am not that old because this is starting to sound
like an old professors.blog i just have an older way of expressing my serious feelings
This is Nigeria so nobody thinks of anyone as a freak because we are all freaks in
our own way,a curse from our society,a society where people get exicted over
availability of their own basic amenities,a society where we don't think we
deserve something as common as light 24hrs a day,good water is a luxury,so is a
three square meal we all say we want a change but deep down we jst want the money
and power because as long as we have that the change we claim we want is no longer
necessary,because we can buy and control it all.The DNA of the average Nigerian cares
for only himself others are less important.
We say we want a change in Nigera but nobody is ready to lead the movement cos
the truth is the Nigeria we claim we want a change in is really ourselves.....

MY FIRST BLOG

Always wanted my first post to be a biggy with all the right words,and stories but this is just another regular morning in my life nd nothing specail so am just going to write anything that comes to my mind.Thats not to say my other posts on this blog will be random,Am going to be writing on very inspiring and motivational topics and trust me my stories will be worth your read,motivational and empowering so make sure you visit and advertise to your friends.This blog will be strictly original,till the next time i post its Shina Zaid signing out.....